If you could step outside yourself and see you as your soul sees you, things would look a lot different. What you would see is the body, with a mind, consciousness, and a personality. But you, the observer, are the soul within — the soul that is the embodiment of lifetimes of experiences and knowledge, and not subject to the compulsions of this particular body. If you have read Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now, you understand this concept.
We are born with certain traits and certain experiences that shape our lives to some extent. But it is your soul that makes you you. It is the soul (or your conscience, if you prefer) that has the ability to override your impulses and prejudices that have been conditioned in you because of the person you were born and the experiences you have had.
We are here to overcome.
Overcome our prejudices, our painful life experiences, even, in some cases, overbearing parents who want us to live the lives they choose for us. We are here to overcome our human nature and live from the soul.
Life is about listening to our inner wisdom. About doing what we feel in our heart is right. About believing what we feel in our heart is right. About living in a way that we feel in our heart is right.
“Right” is different for everyone. We are all on a different path. We may all be going to the same place ultimately, but there are many ways to get there, and many experiences to have along the way.
If we could step outside ourselves to observe not only ourselves, but to see each other in the same way, as souls having a human experience with the particular bodies and life experiences we have chosen, we would be much less judgmental. We would be more understanding and compassionate. We would be more willing to forgive when someone gets lost in hatred and prejudice. Their soul’s knowledge is being overridden by their mind/body.
They have succumbed to the human experience in its worst form.
But don’t blame them.
We are here to experience this existence in all it has to offer. Every mistake, every step we take, is a learning experience for the soul. When we arrive on the other side, we review what our soul has learned. We look at the times we have overcome, and the times we have not. We look at the pain and damage we have caused to other souls on our life’s journey; and the pain other souls have caused us.
We can minimize this damage on both fronts if we simply try harder to understand, and to see ourselves as souls first, humans second. I try not to hurt others, though I know sometimes I do. But pain serves a purpose, both for us and for them, and sometimes it’s necessary for growth. All we can do is try to minimize the pain we inflict when it is in our power to do so.
When someone hurts me, I remind myself that they simply don’t know any better; that they are doing the best they can with who they are and what they know at the time. When I can keep this perspective in focus, it helps with my healing. They will have to figure this out for themselves (and maybe they will, maybe they won’t), but at least I can benefit from a higher understanding.
We are here to overcome. Listen to your conscience. It is your soul speaking.
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