Not many people know this, but my last two jobs, plus the one I was just hired for, were obtained under unusual circumstances. In each case, the front-runner or short-term incumbent in the position vacated it, leaving me with the job. I swear Fate has taken a hand in this every single time.
Two jobs ago, my husband and I had just moved to a new area for his job and I was looking for work. I answered an ad in the newspaper for a human resources job, even though the deadline for applications mentioned in the ad had passed. I thought of calling to ask about the error, thinking maybe the ad was run by mistake, but decided just to send in my résumé anyway.
It turned out that someone had taken the job, which was a newly created position, but left after two weeks to return to her previous employer. One interview later, I was hired. It was a great job that I held for four years and I learned a lot that was essential to my getting the next job.
After having a baby, making a move, being a stay-at-home mom and getting a divorce, I was looking for work again, this time in another part of the state. I had been looking for many months for another HR job, but no one seemed to want to hire me after I had been out of the workforce for a few years.
After months of this, something kind of crazy happened. I was sitting by my computer, and the word “editor” jumped out at me. And I thought….yeah, I would like doing that. I had never even considered it before.
Not long after that happened, I saw the ad for an editor position at a local publishing company that would meld my HR knowledge, wicked research skills and inherent writing ability. I literally got chills up and down my body as soon as I saw the ad. I knew that was my job.
I went through an extensive hiring process for this job which was also a newly created position. It took several hours over several days to get through all the testing and interviews. Then came the final writing test. I did just fine with it, and I was hired.
It wasn’t until months later that I found out I was not the front-runner for the job. Another woman with more HR experience was. But when it came down to the final writing test, the last and final test, I don’t really understand what happened, but it was described to me that she had some sort of “nervous breakdown” and couldn’t complete the test. As a result I got the job, a job I wanted very much. I was there for seven years, and I learned a lot that was essential to my getting the next job.
Two years later as a struggling freelance writer, I found myself looking for work again. A job came to my attention, a paralegal position at a large corporation. The first time I saw the ad, I wasn’t sure about it, but eventually half-heartedly submitted an application. I didn’t even get a screening call.
A couple of months later, I saw the ad again, but this time it was changed to add more of a newsletter writing component, which piqued my interest considerably. I knew I wanted this “new improved” job which would blend my employment law knowledge with my writing skills, so I applied right away, wondering why it was being advertised again so soon.
Almost immediately I received a screening call. During that call, it was revealed to me that an internal candidate had gotten the job, but that she and her husband were going to be transferring out of the country. To South America. So the job, which was also a newly created position, was vacant.
And it was mine. I knew it was mine. How did I know? Because of the circumstances leading up to this. It couldn’t be a coincidence, it just couldn’t. And I was right.
I’m not sure what to make of all this except to say that I don’t believe in coincidences. It doesn’t bother me at all that I wasn’t the front-runner for any of these jobs. What matters is that I ended up with each job. The past two were great jobs, and I have a feeling this next one will be, too.
I feel it has all happened the way it was meant to be. I have no other explanation for these unusual circumstances. I believe the Universe really does look out for us.
Have you ever had anything freaky like this happen to you?
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